Fostering Physical and Mental Well-being for Children: A Holistic Approach for Parents & Teachers
In today's world, children face unprecedented mental health challenges, with alarming statistics showing that 50% of teenagers (ages 12-18) will attempt suicide at least once. To combat this crisis, it's essential to foster both physical and mental well-being in children. Movement, particularly through yoga, is crucial for releasing stress and promoting happiness.
How to foster physical and mental well-being in children as parents?
There is a mental health crises all over the world now. New statistics say that 50%, one in every 2, teenagers (kids ages 12-18) will attempt suicide at least once at that that age. That is a lot and a big risk for our children and our students!
First, physical and mental well-being are interconnected… Movement is life; when we stop moving we send messages to our brain that we don’t want to live.
Lack of movement, such as caused by long hours of schooling and use of technology, causes depression. Movement, and especially yoga, releases physical stress and causes the body to secrete all of the happy hormones.
Movement is as natural to humans as eating and sleeping; every little bit counts. We want to create a habit of moving more and of enjoying and wanting to move more, so it's best if we can make moving fun!
In yoga for children, we make moving fun so children want to do more of it! Play is a great way to move while also connecting to each other at the same time. Connection is a big element in mental health!
As a family, we don’t need to do a whole yoga class… A few stretches in the morning to wake up, some more in the afternoon to prepare for a sport, maybe a fun yoga game to connect when we get back home, and a bit more before bed to chill out can all work.
Also negotiating screen time in exchange for movement works well; move for half an hour and you can have screen time for half an hour.
In yoga, we also address the mind directly and learn to treat it like a garden. Taking out the weeds and making our minds beautiful and fertile is so important for our mental health. Wherever we go and whatever we do, we take our minds with us so our mental state affects everything that we do and all of our relationships with the people around us.
Cultivating an open and positive state of mind is essential for our mental health and we can do this, one thought at a time.
What can help to develop children's attention, focus and learning skills through yoga?
Developing focus and attention is like developing a stronger muscle. If you want a strong muscle you will need to lift weights again and again. To develop focus you will need to train your mind by bringing it to focus again and again.
Yoga guides us to focus on our body and our breath and mindfulness helps us to guide our mind to the present moment, again and again. In Rainbow Yoga, we find fun, creative and engaging ways to do all of that and quickly we develop better focus.
There are other ways yoga and mindfulness help us develop focus as well. Stress inhibits our ability to focus and to learn, especially prolonged stress. By calming our minds and activating the parasympathetic nervous system, yoga helps us create a state of mind where focus and learning are easier.
We live in a very fast-paced and stimulating world which often demands more than our brain can handle. It is important to help kids find moments to foster calming and slowing down to ground and re-balance themselves daily so that they can face the world with an inner strength that will allow them to be the best person they can be.
Why yoga and mindfulness are helpful to enhance children's emotional wellbeing?
We are so busy and children are too. Sometimes we are too busy to even notice how we are feeling. But when we don’t know what we are feeling we also don’t understand why we shout at our parent/kids this morning over something really small or why our friend or teacher are annoying us so much today.
When we are aware of our feelings, we understand our reactions and we can take control over our lives. We stop being on an automated pilot and be so reactive and instead, we can choose, again and again, to be the person that we really want to be.
Mindfulness teaches us to get in touch with our inner world and become our own best friend. This enhances our ability to trust ourselves and increases self-confidence.
We are the one person who is there wherever we go and whatever we do, and if that one person, us, is balanced and happy it reflects on everything in a positive way.
How to become an inspiring educator (or parent) facing the new generation?
First, the world needs you. Families and young people need you now more than ever.
Life is hard and we don’t often get enough support or learn the right tools to handle the load.
Yoga and mindfulness can really help. You can help.
Yes… Times are changing quickly and with it also the way we need to relate to young people. There are a few elements in becoming someone who can inspire and influence young people now… The days of “because I said so” are over because young people don’t see us as big authorities anymore and they have access to knowledge and fact-checking at their fingertips.
The way to inspire them is first to treat them as equals. Children are often treated as 2nd-degree citizens in our society; this immediately creates a disconnect between teachers/parents and young people. We must treat them with the same respect we accept to receive from them. We need to value their opinions and accept their ways of being and doing. We need to listen to them at least in equal amounts to what we want to be heard by them.
A new concept in education that is very valuable is CONNECT before CONTENT. We can’t just show up to class and dump the information on the students and expect them to retain it or make it a part of their lives. They are overloaded with information already. To make an impact, to inspire, we must first take the time to connect with our students.
So we come to class before and we stay after, we show interest in the kids and in their likes and dislikes, we build class themes around topics that they value and that they are interested in and all of this helps them feel that we care and that what we have to share with them is of benefit to them.
And of course, words are empty if they are not backed up by practice. So it is best if we teach from our own experiences. And that’s not hard because life is challenging for us too and if we have made an effort to overcome the obstacles in our paths, if we took the time to cultivate peace and kindness in our hearts and our families despite how hard it is, then we have something to teach. Then we can really be an inspiration
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